I would even go so far to say that they may be SPs (sociopaths); these people seem to have a DEVIL deep inside of them . More so after 15 years. Posts: 15From: united statesRegistered: Jun 2013. As for this guy, hes telling you all you need to know. It's very common to do with placements in this house. As if it was not enough he has moon conjunct pluto in the 5th and Venus square Pluto and Venus trine Saturn. In romantic and marital relationships, the purely material interest of the partners often comes to the fore. Or they saw things in us that were not really there whether good or bad. All of the guys whom I'm involved above have stellium especially benefic planets in my 12th house. That said, I do know something about this. Because people that are confident don't usually like to point out other's weakness's or make them feel bad. There will defo be issues and concerns regarding faithlessness, as Gemini males are often butterflies flitting from flower to flower chasing that honey, lol!!! This is because there are endless ways these things can play. Im stuck. I'm sorry it didn't end as you wanted, Douxie. I feel you, kak.. Im the planet person, in which im the venus, he's the house person. they have told me the same.one of them told me his feelings too late after i was already in a relationship and i met the other while i was in the same one. inscryption cards. When dealing with the spirit world, there are both positive and negative, you know good and bad people and spirits. and NO MORE 12TH HOUSE PARTNERS FOR ME!! Hi Sharmeen, I am very sorry, unfortunately 12th house connections can sometimes reflect deceptions, it is the house of hidden things, secrets etc.. ive seen it many times in others too. Yet and still I have been in love with him for going on over 2 years. What he did to you was cowardly. The love for this man has boosted my spiritual development, mainly though an infinite suffering that has no end Our feelings are mutual (my Venus tightly conjunct his Neptune that can mean that I also boost his spiritual development), but for some karmic reasons we cannot be together. It is sometimes necessary to give people the spacevthey need, even if it hurts. Im so obsessed with him. I knew he got around a lot so I was always afraid of letting him in but Im afraid I caused all the distance. Im all thumbs up, though, for those who do not nave the bad effects of a 12th House synastry. Feeling an intense attraction but beyond the physical, even that he was the personification for what I find attractive in the opposite sex. It's often the downfall of many relationships with planets here. He is a Scorpio sun conjunct Pluto, Moon square Pluto (a magnet) with Mars in Libra conjunct Mercury. I agree with your experience. If they are yours theyll come back and if they dont they never were., I can vouch for this too. However, I am sorry for your pain, and I guess the upside is you don't need to be deceived anymore the truth is out. Im so sorry for the delay! He enjoyed the attention and games for sure and he had a Gemini ruled 12th house. Once around, up and down was TOO much for that villian! Everything has a timing. I also have met two men, 1 in the past and the other one currently that many of my planets fall into their 12th house. Yes gifts can be found, but contrarily mental illness, sexual issues, drugs and alchohol issues, you name it it's all here too. To this some spice adds venus/neptune square. I ran into him the other day out of the blue and he said hi but it was too painful for me to even confront him and I was so mad for so long. but I must admit they FASCINATE me!! In future, i'll try to do some research about this mysterious house according to my religion. It's not of this world, it's spiritual and I don't mean you go to church together spiritual but it's certainly possible. There are times I don't trust him - through no actual fault of his own, btw - and others where I just feel loved in the most basic way. Sounds like your experience was on the negative side. You have to distract yourself in as many ways as possible, do other things, meet other people. I can relate to most that has been said: Psychic, Fated, Spiritual, highly-accepting, Secretive & perhaps in ways obsessional/unrequited. The Sun person sees in the 11th house person someone, who they can spend pleasant time with. As with all conjunctions, Venus conjunct Pluto synastry can play out in positive and negative scenarios alike.. Venus conjunct Pluto synastry relationships are based on the partners' strong romantic and physical attraction. This is because the two individuals want the same type of love relationship--they give and receive love in the same manner. Where your Venus falls in your partner's chart shows where you bring these energies into their life. Still, whenever I think about doing something new in my life, with anyone else I speak with confidence and gusto. I really have no idea whats going on but we have crazy placements, if anyone wants to discuss further please let me know!! I FEEL like he's controlling his emotions for some reason unknown to me. Posts: 354From: united statesRegistered: May 2009, Copyright 2000-2014 As if something beyond ourself is guiding us.what is this shit, ive been asking me many many timesand is there a way to get over this?? I've never felt such a connection before, the passion too. I wouldnt say its a bad experience but Id personally avoid 12th house placements. I kept believing he felt the same as I did, but that for this reason he couldnt give into it. I couldn't forget him until now. The 12th house and Neptune can be very painful, the lingering kind. Also with another friend who showed interest and I really just wanted to remain on a friend basis. Cause he had to be free. Except when one of us is going through any kind of emotional crisis, then we're pretty physically demonstrative. I'm currently talking to someone where my Moon, Mercury, Venus and Jupiter fall into their 12th house. 12th house synastry is way too murky for me to tangle with. Not too hard for me to figure out, even though for years I was dodging it. He indeed often told me that we do have a strong connection. His mars is in my 12th house. Some would be uncomfortable with someone seeping into their dreams or communicating with them in the ethereal realm. I never know what hes thinking, which is rare for me. Questions like "Why do I feel so attracted to this person?" seems to come to mind when they are in each other's presence. In synastry when people impact this house, there is often sort of confessional that occurs. I just cant seem to walk away from him or shut down on him totally. He also has his natal Sun, Venus and Mercury in his 12th house. He inspires it or mirrors it and you feel close to him because of this. Otherwise we kind of don't touch. Without knowing of his opposite actions that indicate his interest in you, its hard to weigh this and determine what the deal is. They may feel a strong sense of familiarity or a deep emotional bond that is difficult to explain. When they found out about him talking to me they were furious that he never told me about THEM! But I always wonder if he feels the same because the 12th house is illusive, So many sites / people say that it is only the house person that will be affected / obsessed. And yes, it plays out just you would think it does. He left few weeks after we met for a travel for six months. I think what really happens is too much is shared to quickly, many secrets, and hidden parts of oneself and why things often get complicated. Explore the synastry between you and your partner Composite Chart / Synastry Report Bundle. This house offers the opportunity to discover these things so we can let them go and live a life with less baggage and more happiness. Brrrrrrr . Hi, Name Again. Its a 99% chance that hell hurt you, but what makes it bad is that the Mars person doesnt really know that they are. My Mars,North node and Pluto(in my DC) conjunct his Uranus and Saturn in the 1st house. Sent 5 times a week. THAT is a swift ender for my 3-placement Leo (read: THE QUEEN) who became TOTALLY OFFENDED by his antics. His response have a huge impact upon me. The descriptions of 12th house Venus in synastry always ring true for me, but I'm always the house person, so it totally sucks being so affected by someone who hides their feelings. because it hurts to know this about yourself, or just accept it. If he has Moon/Cancer, just know that you are dealing with an emotional and sensitive soul, which of course will make him insecure in his dealings with you. What do you think? I am an independent person and this is killing me emotionally, physically and psychologically! Oh one more thing: I am a Sun, Venus & Jupiter/Sag native and my Venus is opposite to my 12th House Gemini placement (Uranus-RETRO). Too late I realized that I loved him unconditionally. I am fascinated by them, and the love I feel is otherworldly. I feel lost a lot of the time, but feel even more lost and dead inside whenever I walk away from him, but I never stay gone for too long, even though I claim I will never come back. It is because mars is a harsher planet? The Venus would be read as being in your first house since the conjunction is so close to your Ascendant. thus I didnt want to be like him. It's like they can talk about everythng and anything and often don't even realize it. it be TROUBLE at times, and very hard. i did not have any dreams of them. This woman matched all of his criteria (tall, slim & fair). Lesson learned: let the men pick ME instead of the other way around. Most often, this includes banking, art and value-related activities. Its possible the blind spot is yours, not his. Well you can imagine how the proposition to be his off-time mistress set with my Midhaven in Aries. What he/she hates in something, i can see that they do the same thing, but they cant see it. This site uses cookies to help personalise content, tailor your experience and to keep you logged in if you register. But afflicted venus indicates the negative effects of the venus/ neptune aspects. Also, my sun/venus are in his 10th, moon in his 5th, mars in his 4th. No way, jose. I've also found when we fought and were out of touch, I could feel how upset and rattled he was when he couldn't reach me. We are from different countries. I resonate with the guy you wrote about in your article. We easily know what the other needs without words. He does tell me how he feels about me. I think that aspect makes you see what you want to see in the other person, but not what is actually there. His venus in your 12th, according to what I know, probably means that you're attracted because he brings out hidden parts of you. Can he just not see it because of this placement? Im not about mind-games or double messages or emotional landmines waiting in the trenches. Being with your spouse causes you to become more reflective and thoughtful. Hi,this is illuminating reading for me :)Recently one man has very special influence on me and his Sun, Mars, Moon and Mercury (although Mercury is very close to my Asc) fall in my 12th house.He just gets me like no one does, or ever did. As a matter of fact it's very difficult to word. so i point it out, and im more aware. Blessings come in MANY modes and appearances! In other words he wanted us to remain in a hidden while he is married and has political career.